I used to spend so much time reacting and responding to everyone else that my life had no direction. Other people's lives, problems, and wants set the course for my life. Once I realized it was okay for me to think about and identify what I wanted, remarkable things began to take place in my life. Melody Beattie
About This Quote

The quote above is very true for a lot of people. In the same way so many people have been overloaded with other peoples' wants and needs that they have to respond to everyone's wants and needs, the person who quoted this has been overloaded by everyone else's thoughts and ideas that he or she has no idea what to think of anymore. Once the person discovers that it is okay for him/herself to think about and identify what he/she wants, remarkable things begin to take place in his/her life.

Source: The Language Of Letting Go: Daily Meditations On Codependency

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