Silent solitude makes true speech possible and personal. If I am not in touch with my own belovedness, then I cannot touch the sacredness of others. If I am estranged from myself, I am likewise a stranger to others.

Brennan Manning
About This Quote

When we feel the pain of our own loneliness, we begin to understand how others feel. The more we identify with another human being, the better we can understand how he or she feels. In the same way, the more we identify with ourselves, the more we can understand our own emotions. Our own personal life becomes cleansed and purified with every love we share with another person.

Source: Abbas Child: The Cry Of The Heart For Intimate Belonging

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