To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable. C.s. Lewis
About This Quote

When we love someone, we are putting our hearts on the line. We are vulnerable to that person and that person is vulnerable to us. If we get hurt, we get hurt. If we forgive, we forgive.

If we get betrayed, we get betrayed. If we don’t care for this person anymore, they will still care for us in some way. Love is a verb not a noun.

Love is something that happens when you open yourself up to another person and in return that person opens up to you. What love does is make us vulnerable but at the same time it makes us strong when it comes to caring for others

Source: The Four Loves

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