Many writers, especially male ones, have told us that it is the decease of the father which opens the prospect of one's own end, and affords an unobstructed view of the undug but awaiting grave that says 'you're next.' Unfilial as this may seem, that was not at all so in my own case. It was only when I watched Alexander [my own son] being born that I knew at once that my own funeral director had very suddenly, but quite unmistakably, stepped onto the stage. I was surprised by how calmly I took this, but also by how reluctant I was to mention it to my male contemporaries. Christopher Hitchens
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For writers, the writing life is a lonely one. Many writers who once had the support of family and friends find it difficult to write without these people in their lives. When their children are born, they suddenly see that death is waiting at the end of the tunnel and it is too late to walk through that door. Instead, their parent must continue to live and fight until the end.

Source: Hitch22: A Memoir

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