Ester asked why people are sad." That’s simple, " says the old man. "They are the prisoners of their personal history. Everyone believes that the main aim in life is to follow a plan. They never ask if that plan is theirs or if it was created by another person. They accumulate experiences, memories, things, other people's ideas, and it is more than they can possibly cope with. And that is why they forget their dreams. Paulo Coelho
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The man who said this to Ester was wise and knew the way of the world well. He knew that people are not in control of their lives, and that they are in a constant struggle to maintain control. They think that their plans will work out in the end, but often they fail in the meantime, and today they are in a worse position than when they started. Sooner or later, they forget their dreams and goals, because they have been busy living someone else's life. And when life forces us to make a choice between staying put or doing something different, it is much easier to stay put.

Source: The Zahir

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