When someone dies they can be any age you remember can't they ' she asked. As I tried to think of a reply she continued 'You probably think about the grown-up Tess because you were still close to her. But when I woke up I thought of her when she was three wearing a fairy skirt I'd got her in the Woolworth's and a policeman's helmet. Her wand was a wooden spoon. On the bus yesterday I imagined holding her when she was two days old. I felt the warmth of her. I remembered all her fingers clasped around my finger so tiny they didn't even meet. I remembered the shape of her head and stroking the nape of her neck till she slept. I remembered her smell. She smelled of innocence. Other times she's thirteen and so pretty that I worry for her everytime I see a man look at her. All of those Tesses is my daughter. Rosamund Lupton
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The idea of being able to remember our dead loved ones in so many different ways is a beautiful thing. The memory of them never fades, but becomes more alive with time. Our memories are so important to us, but they are only one part of the picture. The things we do with our memories are just as important.

If we only remember, we will not be able to do anything with them. If we can remember, then we can create something beautiful with the memories in our minds.

Source: Sister

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