Gavin De BeckerMost men fear getting laughed at or humiliated by a romantic prospect while most women fear rape and death.
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The truth is that both men and women are intimidated by sex. According to a study, most people say they feel more comfortable facing a gun or knife than a sexual situation. Some participants said they would rather face a criminal with a gun or knife than sexually aroused people. Women express that they’d rather face a knife or gun than their own sexual inhibitions and fears.
Men, on the other hand, feel much more comfortable in the presence of a gun or knife than women do. This explains why most people who are afraid of women’s sexuality avoid talking about it. As time goes by, we understand why many people avoid sexual situations.
We also realize that we shouldn’t let our fears drive us away from those we want to spend our lives with.
Source: The Gift Of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence
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