Living without expectations is hard but, when you can do it, good. Living without hope is harder, and that is bad. You have got to have hope, and you mustn’t shirk it. Love, after all, 'hopeth all things.' But maybe you must learn, and it is hard learning, not to hope out loud, especially for other people. You must not let your hope turn into expectation.Wendell Berry
About This Quote
We all have our hopes and dreams. We expect them to come true. The trick is to have hope for things, but not let ourselves expect them to happen. When your hopes are met, you will be so happy.
But when they are not, you won't be disappointed in the least. You don't need to hold onto your hopes so tightly that it feels like they will never come true. If they do, that's great! If they don't, you will still be happy because you will know that you didn't give up when times got tough.
Source: Hannah Coulter
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