In spite of the horror, in spite of the tragedy, in spite of the weeks of sleepless nights, I'm finally alive. I'm not pretending. I feel real. I'm not playing charades anymore. I wouldn't go back to the way I was for anything. I'm really like a different person. I'm where I am, and I'm making the most of it. I know I'm courageous now. I found out I had it in me to face this. – Barbara Ellen Bass
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Loved ones who suffer from cancer often feel that they are not living, but rather dying. Many people don't realize that life can still be full, even with a terminal illness. We all have hopes and dreams, and the unburdened and unashamed Barbara proves that nothing can stop you from living without pretense. She is fierce and fierce and fierce.

Source: The Courage To Heal: A Guide For Women Survivors Of Child Sexual Abuse

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