La mise en place du processus de résilience externe doit être continue autour de l'enfant blessé. Son accueil après l'agression constitue la première maille nécessaire et pas forcément verbale, pour renouer le lien après la déchirure. La deuxième maille, plus tardive, exige que les familles et les institutions offrent à l'enfant des lieux pour y produire ses représentations du traumatisme. La troisième maille, sociale et culturelle, se met en place quand la société propose à ces enfants la possibilité de se socialiser. Il ne reste plus qu'à tricoter sa résilience pendant tout le reste de sa vie. Boris Cyrulnik
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The step of External Resilience Process should be ongoing around the child who has been hurt. The first step is the child’s welcome after the attack. The second step is later and it requires that families and institutions offer to the child places for him to reproduce his representation of the trauma. The third step, social and cultural, is when society suggests these children the possibility to socialize. It is now up to us to knit our resilience throughout their whole life.

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