Self-righteousness is much like a spiritual egocentricity. It constitutes a secular type of love that thrives under conditionality, one in which is only existent after an individual meets the adopted standards of the condemner; oppositely, unconditional love is a holy love.

Criss Jami
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In the world of relationships, it is easy to fall into a pattern of being self-righteous. This is a type of relationship where one person tries to maintain a grip on the other person, trying to control their actions and behavior. In order for this pattern to be sustainable, the one who is attempting to control must have a strong sense of self-righteousness. It can be a very destructive pattern if not managed properly.

Source: Saloma: In Every Inch In Every Mile

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