You know quite well, deep within you, that there is only a single magic, a single power, a single salvation...and that is called loving. Well, then, love your suffering. Do not resist it, do not flee from it. It is your aversion that hurts, nothing else.

Hermann Hesse
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When we are in pain, we generally try to do two things: to stop the pain or to get rid of it. But there is a third way, a way that will free you from your suffering and make you free yourself from it. That third way is to use your suffering as a test. To use it as a means to determine who you are and who you want to be.

When you love the suffering, let the suffering love you back. Then, you will love the very thing that hurts because it will reveal its true nature: pain is nothing more than your aversion to who you really are.

Source: Wer Lieben Kann, Ist GlaCklich. Aoeber Die Liebe

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