There are betrayals in war that are childlike compared with our human betrayals during peace. The new lovers enter the habits of the other. Things are smashed, revealed in a new light. This is done with nervous or tender sentences, although the heart is an organ of fire.

Michael Ondaatje
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In this quote, Oscar Wilde says that our betrayals in war are childlike compared with the way we betray each other during peacetime. War is a chaotic and terrible time for people, but a peaceful time with careful planning and careful words can completely destroy a marriage. We have our own battles to fight, and we have to be careful not to drag others into it with us.

Source: The English Patient

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