Sexual intimacy is a relationship, not just body parts coming together. The more comfortable you are with each other outside the bedroom; the easier it is to relax and the sweeter the intimacy!

Ngina Otiende
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If you are having sex with someone who is not comfortable with your body, you might be in for a long road. However, there are many simple things you can do to make your partner more comfortable. Have sex during the day or when your partner is feeling particularly frisky. Also, try to make it fun for both of you.

Try to have things that you both enjoy doing together. If you have a friend who enjoys oral sex but your partner does not, then try giving him a blow job. If she likes anal, then put some lubrication on your finger and put it in her anus.

That’s an easy way to start a conversation and have a little fun with each other! You can also try going down on her! When people have sex, they need to feel comfortable with their bodies and their partners. If one person is uncomfortable with a certain body part, then they will not be able to relax and enjoy the intimacy of sex.

Source: The Wedding Night: Embracing Sexual Intimacy As New Bride

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