It´s natural to want someone you love to do what you want, or what you think would be good for them, but you have to let everything happen to them. You can't interfere with people you love any more than you're supposed to interfere with people you don't even know. And that's hard, ..., because you often feel like interfering -you want to be the one who makes the plans. John Irving
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When people are in love, they want to make the other person happy. They want to make sure they are doing what they want to do. But sometimes people can be very selfish. When this happens, the person who wants to do what's best for their partner is hurt because they feel like they are not doing that.

This quote explains that sometimes you just have to let your partner do what they need to do. They might not be able to see what you see, if you love them enough.

Source: The Cider House Rules

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