When I say maturity, I mean an inner integrity. And this inner integrity comes only when you stop making others responsible, when you stop saying that the other is creating your suffering, when you start realizing that you are the creator of your suffering. This is the first step towards maturity: I am responsible. Whatsoever is happening, it is my doing. You feel sad. Is this your doing? You will feel very much disturbed, but if you can remain with this feeling, sooner or later you will be able to stop doing many things. This is what the theory of karma is all about. You are responsible. Don’t say society is responsible, don’t say that parents are responsible, don’t say the economic conditions are responsible, don’t throw the responsibility onto anybody. YOU are responsible. .Osho
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We all have a tendency to blame others for our problems and difficulties. In fact, we are constantly making excuses for everything that happens in our lives. We blame our parents for the way that they raised us, we blame our friends for not being there when we need them, and we even blame ourselves for not achieving the goals that we set. In order to be mature, it is important for us to take responsibility for our lives. We have to stop blaming other people and start realizing where we actually have some control over what happens in our lives.
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