...[A] certain degree of un-understanding (not mis-, but un-) is the only possible sanctuary which one human being can offer to another in the midst of the devastating intimacy of a happy marriage.

Jan Struther
...[A] certain degree of un-understanding (not mis-, but un-) is...
...[A] certain degree of un-understanding (not mis-, but un-) is...
...[A] certain degree of un-understanding (not mis-, but un-) is...
...[A] certain degree of un-understanding (not mis-, but un-) is...
About This Quote

This is a quote from a letter written by the author of "The Marriage of Opposites" to his wife, Jeanette Winterson. It's powerful because it captures the essence of what a happy marriage is as well as the unique challenges that come with this kind of relationship. In a happy marriage, both partners can express themselves fully and honestly, and they can also make room for each other's boundaries and preferences. However, some people believe that it's impossible to be happy in a marriage where there's no room for misunderstanding.

Source: Mrs. Miniver

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