When we give freely, we feel full and complete; when we withhold, we feel small, petty, impotent, and lacking. We are meant to learn this great truth, that giving fulfills us, while withholding and trying to get causes us to feel empty and even more needy. This truth runs counter to our programming, which drives us to try to get something from others to fulfill our neediness, only to end up even more needy, grasping, lacking, and unfulfilled.Gina Lake
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Giving without expectations is one of the most fulfilling things you can do. Giving freely serves as a form of expressing your love and gratitude. The act of giving allows you to feel full and complete. Giving should never be done out of expectation.
Expectations are the reason why people fail at giving, because they are trying to get something in return. Expectations are also what cause people to withhold their gifts, because they feel ungrateful if they don’t receive something in return. When people give without expecting anything back, they tend to feel more complete and fulfilled than when they give expecting some type of reward, even if it is something small like a smile or a thank you.
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