Bell HooksThe practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.
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The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control. Love is about the freedom to be vulnerable and be hurt by someone you love without needing to worry about what it means for your relationship.
Love doesn’t give you any guarantees that things will work out or that you won’t get hurt in some way. Love means accepting the fact that there is no promise of safety in love and it only takes one time for that to change.
Source: All About Love: New Visions
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