Individuals who want to believe that there is no fulfillment in love, that true love does not exist, cling to these assumptions because this despair is actually easier to face than the reality that love is a real fact of life but is absent from their lives.

Bell Hooks
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Love is a fact of life, but it is also a fact that love does not exist. Love may be a fact of life but there are people who believe that love is not a true fact of life. They cling to these false notions because this despair is actually easier to face than the reality that love is a real fact of life but is absent from their lives. When they lose their loved ones, they can simply believe that it was meant to be and move on without having to deal with the pain. In other words, they can face the reality of losing them and still cling to the false notion that love does not exist.

Source: All About Love: New Visions

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