For the future, I shall rely only upon those elements of my character which I have tested. Who would ever have said that I should find pleasure in shedding tears? That I should love the man who proves to me that I am nothing more than a fool?

Stendhal
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In my younger days, I would have been very upset if someone had told me that I had a mean streak. However, in my later years, I have grown to love the person who can hurt me. The person who proves to me that I am nothing more than a fool. It doesn’t matter what I do or if I am successful or unsuccessful; what matters is whether or not I am happy within myself.

Source: The Red And The Black

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