Only to the degree that people have what they need, that they are healthy and unafraid, that their lives are varied, interesting, meaningful, productive, joyous, can we begin to judge, or even guess, their nature. Few people, adults or children, now live such lives.

John Holt
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The people that we look up to and wish to be like, do it because they have what they need. They are healthy and unafraid. Their lives are varied, interesting, meaningful, productive, joyous, and even creative. In other words, they have what they need to flourish in this world.

They are able to create beauty from their own unique perspectives. People who do not have what they need can be seen as ugly and boring, probably because they lack the things that make them great.

Source: Instead Of Education: Ways To Help People Do Things Better

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