Let us be sure that the lady of our choice possesses certain tangible qualities that we admire; and if in other ways she falls short of our ideal, we must be patient and call to mind those qualities that first induced us to begin our courting.

Murasaki Shikibu
About This Quote

This quote from a poem titled The Lady of the Lake, is from a time when women were expected to have many qualities that men found attractive. In this quote, the speaker is letting the lady know off the bat that he is much more interested in who she is than what she looks like. He is not going to be swayed by her looks and he wants his future wife to know this.

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