Understanding is used too often as a convenient means to avoid and sidestep the process of acknowledging the hurts and wounds (which makes forgiving more effective). We cannot truly forgive until we admit that the offense is as wounding as it really is, and therefore really does need to be forgiven. When understanding becomes the substitute not only for forgiving but for sharing about feelings, healing does not occur. Charles Finck
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  2. Hell is truth seen too late.

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  4. Now I am about to take my last voyage, a great leap in the dark

  5. Curiosity is the lust of the mind.

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