Every friendship travels at sometime through the black valley of despair. This tests every aspect of your affection. You lose the attraction and the magic. Your sense of each other darkens and your presence is sore. If you can come through this time, it can purify with your love, and falsity and need will fall away. It will bring you onto new ground where affection can grow again. John Odonohue
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This quote, written by the pioneering author Robert Browning, is an inspiration to friendship. Many people lose their love for friends when they are tested in the dark valley of despair, when times are tough and their relationships are strained. The test can be difficult, but if you come through it with your love intact, it can purify with your love, and falsity and need will fall away. It will bring you onto new ground where affection can grow again.

Source: Anam Cara: A Book Of Celtic Wisdom

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