Comparing what we're looking for misses the point. It's wanting to know that makes us matter. Otherwise we're going out the way we came in. That's why you can't believe in the afterlife, Valentine. Believe in the after, by all means, but not the life. Believe in God, the soul, the spirit, the infinite, believe in angels if you like, but not in the great celestial get-together for an exchange of views. If the answers are in the back of the book I can wait, but what a drag. Better to struggle on knowing that failure is final. Tom Stoppard
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When we compare ourselves to other people, we only highlight the things about ourselves that we do not like. We should strive to be better than we were yesterday and not worse. Otherwise, we will spend our lives looking for ourselves in the wrong places and letting ourselves down. It is better to live in the moment and find happiness in all the little things rather than to be looking for perfection in all things and living life in a way that you cannot be happy.

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