Because God is never cruel, there is a reason for all things. We must know the pain of loss; because if we never knew it, we would have no compassion for others, and we would become monsters of self-regard, creatures of unalloyed self-interest. The terrible pain of loss teaches humility to our prideful kind, has the power to soften uncaring hearts, to make a better person of a good one. Dean Koontz
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In this quote, the author is speaking from within the heart of a broken person. He is speaking from a place of absolute despair, and he is giving up. He doesn’t think that he has a chance to find happiness again. His pain is so great that all he can do is keep going. He says that a person cannot survive a tragedy without being changed forever, and he means it.

Source: The Darkest Evening Of The Year

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