Marcus AureliusFor outward show is a wonderful perverter of the reason.
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When we make an effort to impress others, we may be doing it not for the right reasons. Perhaps we truly believe that our appearance is important, or we feel that we need to make a good impression in order for people to like us and want us around. However, in doing so, we may be trying to gain approval without any real respect for ourselves. We may be letting other people’s opinions rule over our own, and in the end we end up feeling bad about ourselves and losing self-respect.
Source: Meditations
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