Yes, sex is troublesome and beautiful. And only when we drop our expectations, and know that we'll have moments of great sex and moments when our sexuality confounds, pains, or infuriates us, will we be liberated to enjoy it in a way that's true to ourselves.

Alexandra Katehakis
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A person who makes a living through sex is a prostitute. A prostitute's work is confounded, difficult and a source of pain and suffering. Sex is a troublesome activity that can lead to suffering and pain, but if we can put aside our expectations and accept that sex has ups and downs, then we can enjoy it in a way that's true to ourselves.

Source: Mirror Of Intimacy: Daily Reflections On Emotional And Erotic Intelligence

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