While the repression of a memory is a psychological process, the suppression of feeling is accomplished by deadening a part of the body or reducing its motility so that feeling is diminished. The repression of the memory is dependent upon and related to the suppression of feeling, for as long as the feeling persists, the memory remains vivid. Suppression entails the development of chronic muscular tension in those areas of the body where the feeling would be experienced. In the case of sexual feeling, this tension is found in and about the abdomen and pelvis. Alexander Lowen
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The suppression of a memory is a psychological process that involves the repression of feelings through muscular tension. For example, when a person relives an event that is painful, they might tense up all over their body. This is because the memory has been repressed. The muscles are tensed in order to reduce the feeling associated with the memory.

The same thing happens when an individual is trying to suppress thoughts or feelings about something. You might hold your breath, kick your legs, or tense up all over your body to try and prevent an unpleasant memory from coming up.

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