It is so difficult - at least, I find it difficult - to understand people who speak the truth.

E.m. Forster
It is so difficult - at least, I find it...
It is so difficult - at least, I find it...
It is so difficult - at least, I find it...
It is so difficult - at least, I find it...
About This Quote

This quote by Oscar Wilde is about people who are honest with themselves, but whose candor may be perceived as rude or callous. We all know someone like this. They are frank about their own shortcomings. People with this attitude rarely win friends and influence people.

They feel that honesty is its own reward, so they don't hide their mistakes or try to "dumb things down" for the sake of others. They are blunt because they are true to themselves.

Source: A Room With A View

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