One of the mistakes many of us make is that we feel sorry for ourselves, or for others, thinking that life should be fair, or that someday it will be. It's not and it won't. When we make this mistake we tend to spend a lot of time wallowing and/or complaining about what's wrong with life. "It's not fair, " we complain, not realizing that, perhaps, it was never intended to be. Richard Carlson
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The quote, "One of the mistakes many of us make is that we feel sorry for ourselves, or for others, thinking that life should be fair, or that someday it will be. It's not and it won't. When we make this mistake we tend to spend a lot of time wallowing and/or complaining about what's wrong with life. "It's not fair," we complain, not realizing that, perhaps, it was never intended to be." is about how the way life is sometimes doesn't make sense.

Some people may believe it is unfair but they don't know why things are happening the way they are. The way life goes sometimes doesn't make sense but when you look at things in perspective you can see that things are fine and it is just a misunderstanding.

Source: Dont Sweat The Small Stuff ... And Its All Small Stuff: Simple Ways To Keep The Little Things From Taking Over Your Life

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