Forgiveness was work, Eduardo told victims' families--but so, then, was love, and deciding what was right, and defending it. Recusing yourself from judgment so you won't be tainted by the aggressor's sin is the same as turning away from empathy so you won't be touched by the victim's pain.

Jennifer DuBois
About This Quote

Forgiveness was work, Eduardo told victims' families--but so, then, was love, and deciding what was right, and defending it. Recusing yourself from judgment so you won't be tainted by the aggressor's sin is the same as turning away from empathy so you won't be touched by the victim's pain. This quote is really about letting go of your own personal feelings and judgments. Forgiveness is not about letting someone walk all over you because you are afraid of getting hurt. This quote is about understanding that sometimes people do bad things for all sorts of reasons, not just to hurt others.

Source: Cartwheel

Some Similar Quotes
  1. Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. - Lao Tzu
  2. Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time. - Maya Angelou
  3. You can build walls all the way to the sky and I will find a way to fly above them. You can try to pin me down with a hundred thousand arms, but I will find a way to resist. And there are many of... - Lauren Oliver
  4. ...Who could refrain, That had a heart to love, and in that heart Courage to make love known? - William Shakespeare
  5. We, unaccustomed to courageexiles from delightlive coiled in shells of lonelinessuntil love leaves its high holy templeand comes into our sightto liberate us into life. Love arrivesand in its train come ecstasiesold memories of pleasureancient histories of pain. Yet if we are bold, love strikes... - Maya Angelou
More Quotes By Jennifer DuBois
  1. Forgiveness was work, Eduardo told victims' families--but so, then, was love, and deciding what was right, and defending it. Recusing yourself from judgment so you won't be tainted by the aggressor's sin is the same as turning away from empathy so you won't be touched...
  2. When my father wrote about fate, I think he was writing about the reality that is, when there are so many other realities that could have been.
  3. Sadness, forever unacknowledged, eventually becomes resentment.
  4. Sometimes there are things we don't understand even about ourselves. Sometimes we run out of the time to keep trying to unravel them, and we have to sit back and content ourselves with a shrug. But I think there are some things that we'd never...
  5. And anyway, the anticipation was always worse than the thing itself - the anticipation and the memory, of course. And the anticipation of the memory was maybe the worst part of all.
Related Topics