I will no longer mutilate and destroy myself in order to find a secret behind the ruins.

Hermann Hesse
About This Quote

This quote is taken from a poem by Pablo Neruda. The poem is entitled, “The Destructive.” In the poem, Neruda describes how he once sought salvation through destruction of himself and others. This fits with the idea of addiction because the best way to deal with addiction is to address it head on and work it out. No one can make you feel better unless you want to be better and no one can help you if you don’t want to be helped. If you feel something isn’t working for you, look at ways to improve it and try different things until you find what works best for you.

Source: Siddhartha

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