We realized that the version of the world they rendered for us was not the world they really believed in...

Jeffrey Eugenides
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We realized that the version of the world they rendered for us was not the world they really believed in. In other words, they weren’t living their lives as they really believed they should. They were living a version of their lives that was much closer to what they thought people ought to do. They were, in a word, being inconsistent. They were ignoring the version of the world that really mattered to them and instead making a version of it that would please people who didn’t even know them.

Source: The Virgin Suicides

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