Students didn't much like those who verbally or physically beat the crap out of them. But when researchers began measuring aggression alongside perceived popularity, they found an undeniably strong link. Recent studies conclude that aggressive behaviors are now often associated with high social status. Psychologists no longer view aggression as a last-resort tactic of social misfits. Now they see aggression as a means toward social success. (This does not, however, mean it is admired.) .Alexandra Robbins
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A person who engages in aggressive behavior is not necessarily a bad person. In fact, the opposite may be true. Many people are aggressive because they feel it is an effective way to get their way. This turns aggression into a self-fulfilling prophecy.
For example, if you are trying to get along with someone, you might find yourself being aggressive because you believe that this will lead to the desired outcome. If you are really good at being aggressive, it may lead to more recognition and better social status. But, this is not always the case.
Sometimes being aggressive will only make things worse for you.
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