That is the problem with repressed memory and dissociative identity disorder. Your mind represses certain traumas for reasons of pure survival. And then you learn that to survive as an adult, you must uncover the memories, find the parts, and relieve the traumas. The contradiction is almost too much for the mind to comprehend and for the heart and soul to endure. Suzie Burke
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In this quote, the author is describing a situation where a person has been brutally abused as a child. The trauma was so severe that the person's mind had repressed it from his memory. The author says that sometimes, these traumas can't be fully erased and can be brought up in unexpected ways. These people have to learn how to deal with the memories and the pain they cause them.

Source: Wholeness: My Healing Journey From Ritual Abuse

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