So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused. Hermann Hesse
About This Quote

In a moment of passion, a man and a woman can feel as though they have been given a gift from the gods. Love is a magical force that can make the world seem perfect and fair. In those moments, love is pure and complete. But as love goes on, it becomes more complicated.

Love is not all-powerful. Each partner wants to be better than the other one. By setting out with high expectations, one person often ends up disappointed.

The trick is to keep that same passion going over time, but with a new understanding of what each partner wants from the relationship.

Source: Siddhartha

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