Jodi PicoultWhat if love wasn't the act of finding what you were missing but the give-and-take that made you both match?
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If love is the act of finding what you were missing, then it must be something that is missing in the first place. It is only by loving another person that your life becomes complete. If love was the act of finding what you were missing then it would be important to find that person in order to find yourself. And, if love was the act of finding what you were missing, then there would be no give-and-take. If you found what you were looking for, then it would not matter who was giving or receiving the love because they would all be identical.
Source: The Tenth Circle
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