Once in a while we burned a wok trying to make our churan, and Jima, Bhanu, or another matriarch would banish us from the kitchen. “You should’ve told us, ” they’d say. “We would’ve helped you.” You’re not getting it, Neela and I thought. This is our party and you’re not invited. To this day, the elder women of my household in Chennai still regard Neela or me with suspicion whenever we enter the kitchen to make anything other than tea. No matter that I host a cooking show or that Neela has raised two healthy daughters who clearly haven’t starved or been disfigured by a kitchen accident. Padma Lakshmi
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When you want to do something from the heart but someone from your family or community is against it, you should not listen to them. You should go ahead with what you want to do, show them how great it is and make them proud by doing a good job.

Source: Love, Loss, And What We Ate: A Memoir

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