Your own family resemblances are a frustrating code, most easily read by those who know you least.

Barbara Kingsolver
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Family resemblance is the idea that distant relatives tend to look similar. People from different families, but with a shared ancestor, can look more alike than they would if they had no family connection at all. This means that siblings share some traits from their parents, but still have many unique characteristics of their own. In addition to looking alike, family members often have similar interests and opinions.

It can be frustrating because someone you know may resemble someone from your family more than a stranger. The best thing to do is simply talk to a stranger.

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