You cannot say 'no' to the people you love, not often. That's the secret. And then when you do, it has to sound like a 'yes'. Or you have to make them say 'no.' You have to take time and trouble.

Mario Puzo
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When we say no to people we love, we hurt them. We deny them what they need and do not want. Instead of saying no, we must make our loved ones say no. The idea is that they will feel angry and angry people won’t listen to reason.

Instead they will take action, angry at us but angry at the same time. Instead of taking action, we should sit and wait for our loved ones to come around and own up to their anger and disappointment with us

Source: The Godfather

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