I'm tired of living unable to love anyone. I don't have a single friend - not one. And, worst of all, I can't even love myself. Why is that? Why can't I love myself? It's because I can't love anyone else. A person learns how to love himself through the simple acts of loving and being loved by someone else. Do you understand what I am saying? A person who is incapable of loving another cannot properly love himself. Haruki Murakami
About This Quote

By this quote, J.K. Rowling is saying that she doesn't have a single friend and she can't even love herself. She's telling you that she's tired of living a life without love. Because she doesn't have a single friend, she thinks that there is something wrong with her and it's holding her back from being able to feel love.

If she had someone to talk to and someone who cared about her, she might feel more happy and less sad. But since she doesn't have any friends, she feels very lonely and sad all the time because she can't share her feelings with anyone.

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