A sexual fantasy should only be something you cannot ever achieve. If it's achievable, then it's nothing more than a reality you avoid making happen for yourself

James Perrin
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When you fantasize about something that is only a fantasy, it takes the sting out of reality. When you think about something that is not possible, it makes the idea of the actual experience less daunting. But when you think about something that is achievable, even if it’s an unattainable fantasy, it becomes less scary and more likely to become a reality.

Source: The Occasional Swearing Of Passionate Perrin

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