You can't own a human being. You can't lose what you don't own. Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don't, do you? And neither does he. You're turning over your whole life to him. Your whole life, girl. And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can't value you more than you value yourself. .Toni Morrison
About This Quote
If you love someone, you will not want to give that person up. You will try your best to stop them from leaving you. You will be willing to sacrifice yourself for them. You will accept and understand their decision and support them and help them find love again.
It takes a great deal of strength and courage to give up someone you love and start a new relationship. However, the truth is that if we loved someone we would not want them to leave us or we would not want someone else to take their place. We would never wish that upon anyone or destroy that person’s life by trying to keep them from finding happiness.
In this quote, the author is saying that when two people love each other they are both willing to do whatever it takes in order to remain together. If one person does not love the other, they will let them go in order for the one who does love the other to find someone who they can love too.
Source: Song Of Solomon
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