Locking ourselves in the situation where we wish for sympathy and want to be looked at as the aggrieved party normally makes us powerless.

Stephen Richards
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When we are the ones who are behaving badly, it’s hard to see ourselves as victims. We lock ourselves in a situation where we want sympathy but wish to be seen as the aggrieved party.

Source: The Pain You Feel Today Is The Strength You Feel Tomorrow

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