Unattended hurt, anger, and bitterness can destroy even the best marriage. Lean honestly into every hard place, each tender spot, because truthfulness hurts for a minute but silence is the kill shot.

Jen Hatmaker
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When couples come together, they are not thinking about the future. Instead, they are overwhelmed with the day-to-day details of life. Couples often find themselves hurt or angry at one another for doing things that seem small, but can have huge consequences. When they are honest about what is really happening, they can communicate more effectively and support each other. In many ways, this quote reminds people to lean honestly into every hard place as honesty leads to a healthier relationship, as it can help them make choices based on the truth.

Source: For The Love: Fighting For Grace In A World Of Impossible Standards

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