It is not what we feel that gets us in to trouble. It is how we express how we feel that causes conflict.

DeBorrah K. Ogans
About This Quote

In relationships, conflict may arise from a multitude of factors. Whether it is a deeper-seated problem or an issue that has been blown out of proportion, conflict is a necessary part of a healthy relationship. How we deal with our emotions and how we express our emotions in the face of conflict often dictate the outcome.

Source: Holy Matrimony: Now That Were Married

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