I was relying on youth be loyal to the specific variety of compromise and unhappiness, which our hard-won marriage represents.

Alain De Botton
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When you give up your youth and get married, you are sacrificing something that will never come back to you. After marriage, you will not be able to go out and have fun like you did when you were single. You also lose your youthful energy and enthusiasm for life. Instead of simply living, married couples must work at maintaining their relationship through compromise and unhappiness. This is the price they pay for entering into marriage.

Source: The Course Of Love

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