My mother could see that as far as my father's relationship with the Party was concerned, she was an outsider. One day, when she ventured some critical comments about the situation and got no response from him, she said bitterly, "You are a good Communist, but a rotten husband! " My father nodded. He said he knew. Jung Chang
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This quote is very insightful. Many times, our parents are the people who are closest to us and they can see things in us that we can’t see for ourselves. If they tell us that we are not doing well in school, then we might start to doubt ourselves or if they say something critical about our behavior, then we may begin to question our actions. This quote reflects the reality that different people will feel different things because of their position in life. This is an opportunity to examine your own life because someone much closer to you than you realize could be telling you the truth.

Source: Wild Swans: Three Daughters Of China

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